Memorial Day Traditions| More Than Just A Kickoff To Summer
As the unofficial start to summer, Memorial Day weekend often brings sunshine, barbecues, and time with loved ones. But this day holds a much deeper meaning—it’s a time to honor and remember the men and women who gave their lives in service to our country.
While celebrating with family and friends, consider weaving meaningful traditions into your festivities. Memorial Day is a powerful opportunity to reflect, remember, and even start your own family customs that pay tribute to our fallen heroes.
The History of Memorial Day
Memorial Day, originally known as Decoration Day, began after the Civil War to honor the nation’s military personnel who died in battle. It’s estimated that 1.8 million Americans have lost their lives in service since 1775.
The earliest recorded observance took place on May 1, 1865, at the Washington Race Course in Charleston, South Carolina. In a poignant moment of remembrance, over 10,000 gathered for a parade to honor fallen Union soldiers. The event was documented by The New York Tribune and The Charleston Courier.
On May 30, 1868, General John Logan officially proclaimed Memorial Day as a national observance. Held at Arlington National Cemetery, the ceremony honored both Union and Confederate soldiers. Logan called upon Americans to decorate the graves of those “who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion.”
In 1971, Memorial Day became a federal holiday through an act of Congress and is now observed annually on the last Monday of May, creating a three-day weekend for remembrance.
You can learn more about the history of Memorial Day at www.usmemorialday.org.
What Is The Difference Between Memorial Day And Veteran’s Day?
Many people wonder what the difference between Memorial Day and Veteran’s Day.
Memorial Day– commemorates those who died while in the military service of their country.
Veteran’s Day- honors ALL men and women who have served this country. Veteran’s Day celebrates any American who served in wartime and peacetime, regardless of whether they have died or survived.
Memorial Day Traditions Across America
Despite its solemn origins, Memorial Day traditions often include uplifting community celebrations that honor fallen heroes. Here are just a few ways Americans pay tribute:
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Ceremonies at Cemeteries: Families and volunteers place flowers and flags on graves at veterans’ cemeteries.
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National Ceremonies: The U.S. President or Vice President usually presides over a ceremony at Arlington National Cemetery, including a wreath-laying at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.
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Parades & Performances: Cities nationwide host parades with marching bands, veterans, and active service members.
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Gettysburg’s Annual Celebration: Held since 1868, Gettysburg National Park commemorates Memorial Day with a historic address and military tribute.
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National Memorial Day Concert: Broadcast live from Washington D.C., this PBS and NPR event features musical tributes and stories from veterans.
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Sports Tributes: The Indianapolis 500 and the Memorial Golf Tournament are held in honor of the occasion.
Ideas for Starting Your Own Family Traditions
If you’re looking to make Memorial Day more meaningful, consider adding one of these thoughtful traditions to your weekend plans:
1. Fly the American Flag
Raise the flag at half-mast until noon, then to full-staff until sunset. No flagpole? Use small flags in flowerpots or window boxes.
2. Decorate Gravesites
Honor a loved one or a forgotten hero by placing flowers or flags at their grave. Visit your local veterans’ cemetery to pay respects.
3. Display a POW/MIA Flag
Fly a POW/MIA flag to honor the 83,000+ Americans still missing from past wars.
4. Pause for the National Moment of Remembrance
At 3:00 PM local time, join fellow Americans in a one-minute moment of silence to honor the fallen. This act was established by Congress in 2000.
5. Share Their Story
Post a photo or memory of a family member who served on Facebook or Instagram to honor their life and legacy.
6. Watch Reagan’s Normandy Speech
https://youtu.be/eEIqdcHbc8I
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